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Sunday, November 1, 2020

DON'T DATE AN EMPATH or AN OVERTHINKER


Don't date an overthinker,

Because they will fall in love with the smallest things about you, the tiniest details about you,

The color of your eyes and the way your smile formed.

They will so spend each day analyzing your facial expressions when you speak, and nights comprehending what your text meant.

They will agonize and torment themselves for hours over why you didn't say hello to them at breakfast or lunch or dinner, and start to create unrealistic scenarios in their head that you decided you no longer like them. Or be with them.

Don't date that individual, because, otherwise they will suffocate you with their care, passion, love and affection.

They will always want to ask you, if you are alright and constantly say that they love you just to hear you say it back to them, and they will weep,

Oh dear God, will they so cry. 

They will weep over the way you looked at that other person, or

Texted or the way your eyes stopped lightning up at the sound of their very own name.

They will weep when you start kissing them like it's your job and touching them like it's a habit.

They will even overthink the fact that maybe they're just overthinking, that you do still love them,(whether you still wanna be with them) that all, this worry might actually just be in their own head. 

And so when you do leave,

Or decided to leave them??? They will still wake up at late nights (after 2Am) months from now replaying the memories they had with you over and over again in their head like a jukebox saying, "Where did I go wrong?" or "What did I do this time?" Or "did I love her right"??

So, do not date an overthinker.

Don't do it unless you plan of loving them for a lifetime. 

Or spending your life with them till the end.

Don't fall in love with them unless you are committed, 

And be honest with them when it's time to end things, don't make excuses. 



Ps: I am that OVERTHINKER.



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